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Saturday, October 9, 2010

The last 10

The first 10 goals of my 20 are public. These were the easy ones. These are the ones I can achieve based on my current limitations.

The last 10 goals are beyond my reach right now. They have mostly to do with travel, with further education, maybe part time employment, volunteer opportunties, changes of life style or location ... all of which are impossible because they involve more time away from the home or changes that won't accomodate my family members needs.

So I'll hold off listing anything further for now. These 10 are enough to keep me occupied. Those last 10 can wait until I am more free - or God grants my request for a 36 hour day.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Walking the Lake



Today I got the rare opportunity to walk Centennial Lake. I left Milo at the vet's this morning (he wasn't all that happy), and I hurried to a Tai Chi practice. I was late, but able to practice for maybe 30 minutes. The picture was taken from a distance and under the tent it shows a few of the Tai Chi members practicing the movements. It is a beautiful and peaceful place for Tai Chi.






When practice ended I took off for a walk around the lake by myself. The sun was brilliant, the lake follage was beginning to show its colors. I was thrilled to have 45 minutes alone to enjoy a beautiful walk. Crisp, cool, clear.

How wonderful it would be to walk this lake every day.

Big day!

Today is a big, big day in Milo-land!

Today Milo starts the day as a sweet heart of a dog, but also as a "man", a "big boy", a "fully hung guy", ready to mount everything and anything, ready to defend his mama from everything and everyone (even moths), guarding his territory, his food, his bone. And he thinks his lady vet is a super person!

And today, Milo ends the day as a sweet heart of a dog, but also as a better pet, a happier dog, a healthier puppy, a more loving member of the family - and less of a pain in the b*tt!! At least that is what we hope in the future. And that super lady vet? eh - not so much!

I am also guessing that he won't be prone to sleep this way in the future - or maybe that is just a dog thing!


Thursday, October 7, 2010

Dentists - why do they do it!

How do you feel about going to the dentist? That was what I did today. Not a routine appointment. One of my crowns broke and needed to be replaced.

I am not ever happy about going to the dentist. I am a good patient and do everything they say, but twice a year after my regular dental appointment I always breath a sigh of relief that I am free for the next 6 months - unless, of couse, something comes up like today.

Now to be perfectly clear, my dentist isn't the problem. He is fabulous!! I've seen this same dentist for over 35 years. Now his son is in practice with him, and I see the son as well. And both are skilled, knowledgeable, gentle, and caring doctors. Their practice has been rated first in our city. He has been recognized by professional organizations as a highly respected dentist and he has featured in multiple magazine articles. And when I was in bad, bad pain over a weekend several years ago (pain that made it impossible to close my eyes all night, pain that made me nauseous, pain that Advil didn't even touch no matter how much I took), he came into the office on a Saturday afternoon (in his running clothes, no less) to see me, and he got me in with an excellent root canal specialist on a Saturday evening (she and her husband came in from a party to do my root canal). So I have absolutely no complaints with these wonderful people. They were there when I needed them and over the years, I have had absolutely top notch dental care.

Can you hear the "but" just hanging in the air?

I was raised during the "drill and fill" generation. In my youth I developed an aversion to going to the dentist. And the fact that I still have all my teeth at age 63 after such a terrible start as a child is a tribute to the wonderful care I got over the last 35 years.

And now for the "but" ... But I don't like people putting their fingers in my mouth. I don't even like to put my own fingers in my mouth!! I don't like holding my mouth open so that they can do the work. I don't like the pointy tools they use to check my teeth and gums. I don't like the sounds their tools make. I don't like the Novocaine injections (but I wouldn't do without them either). And don't forget the x-rays. I must have the smallest mouth because those darn film cards hurt my gums every time.

What I don't understand is why anyone would want to go into this profession? Why would you want to work in someone's mouth? Why would you want to work with patients who really don't want to be there? If anyone knows, I would love to hear about it.

But I am really glad someone wants to do this work, and I am really, really glad I saw my dentist of 35 years today, because the crown was broken and has to be replaced! And he is the absolute best! It is sort of a love-hate relationship, don't you think? :-)

So how do you feel about the dentist?

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Wild Life Friends


I walked today and it felt good. It was gray and cool and perfect. I remembered that this kind of weather was what I thought about when I was walking in the heat and humidity of summer. These are the glory days of walking. No heat, or freezing temps, or ice or snow. Just cool crisp days! I love Fall.

Fall and Halloween decorations are popping up in the neighborhoods. Leaves fill the streets and sidewalks. The squirrels are boldly grabbing all the acorns they can find. Since squirrels are notorious for not remembering where they hide their food, they overcompensate by hording beyond their needs. When they can't find their hidden meals, they turn up at my bird feeder - stealing seed from my resident birds.

I know that some people find squirrels to be pests. But I enjoy watching their antics and acrobatics. I admire their ingenuity and persistence in seeking food. And they proved to me that they do have some memory.

Last winter I began feeding the birds on my deck. In the spring the squirrels showed up. To deflect the squirrels, I bought a squirrels resistant feeder, called a Squirrel Buster, and corn cobs. My thought was that I would throw out the corn cobs for the squirrels keeping them busy freeing the feeders for the birds. And it worked. It actually worked too well.

Every morning I would come down stairs to make the coffee, open the blinds and pull back the kitchen slider blind - and every morning a squirrel would be sitting on my balcony staring back at me ... waiting. I would open the slider, he would retreat to the banister, I would fill the feeders and then throw a corn cob over the deck. He would scamper off to retrieve it ... and all would be well. Friends who would visit would comment on what a chubby squirrel he was. My husband and I joked that maybe we should name him. But reason took hold. The next thing you know, I would be taking him for regular veterinary care! No, no naming of the wild life!

Then one morning I opened the slider blind and there were 2 squirrels sitting there ... staring back. Word was spreading! At one point we had 4 squirrels. We were wondering if they were a family. It was alittle creepy because the numbers were climbing. But the final straw happened one day when I was returning from a walk. I was walking on the sidewalk parallel to my town home, and I became aware that something was moving beside me. I stopped and looked down. Not 3 feet away was the squirrel looking back at me. I started to walk and he kept pace. Totally freaked, I stamped my feet and he moved away. But not too far. I was the corn cob lady after all, and you never know when she would toss one. So, yes, I do think squirrels have memory - selective memory like everyone else. And there is one out there who is keeping an eye on me.

We were moving into summer and the birds would not starve, so I stopped feeding everyone. EVERYONE! The squirrels still came for a few weeks and then finally gave up. Now that it is fall, I am back to feeding the birds again. And I probably will feed the squirrels as well. I still have a few of those corn cobs. I am guessing it will take the wild life a little while to figure out "she's back!!!". :-)

I love feeding the birds. I have two bird books for the mid-Atlantic region and I have kept track of the birds I have seen off my back deck. Once I saw a Cooper Hawk in the trees behind my house. As I was admiring him through my binoculars, he took flight. I kept watch and he dived towards my deck, obviously going after one of the birds. I quickly looked him up in my book and sure enough, he eats lots of things and one was other birds! Darn. I was now creating a smorgasbord for his lunch. Somehow this feeding the wild life was more complicated than I thought.

Last winter when we had many feet of snow on the ground, I know I kept a small flock of birds alive behind my house. During one of the mega east coast snow storms I discovered that my bird feeder couldn't keep up with the demand - there were too many birds. I filled a pie plate with seed but the snow was coming down so fast, it would cover the seed before they could eat. So I put an umbrella over the pie pan so they could feed under shelter. My neighbors never asked what I was doing ... probably better not to question the nut next door!

I'll be feeding the birds again this winter. And if I need to keep a family of squirrels alive again this winter, so be it. They are hungry too!

For those who are interested in how to control squirrels, check out:

Squirrels, 101 Cunning Stratagems to Reduce Dramatically the Egregious Misappropriation of Seed from Your Birdfeeder by Squirrels by Bill Adler, Jr. It is a very fun read, because everyone knows that you can't outwit squirrels. My edition was the Second Edition "revised and even craftier".

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Knitting and Weaving Day


A normal knitting day? Not!























Yes, mostly knitting was present, but "weaving new comers" to the table were very evident.

The Hazel Rose Looms made their first appearance! I managed to complete a 7" square and a 12" square prior to the meeting. In the foreground is the 12" completed weaving piece. Another 12" piece was started to demonstrate the difference in weaving techniques between the Hazel Rose Loom and the weave-it loom. Two members of the group tried out the weaving and were very pleased with the process and the result.

We had so much fun.

But knitting wasn't about to be upstaged! One member of the group had completed a darling child's sweater and adorable bunny slippers. There is so much talent in the group.

It was another great Tuesday with this talented group of women.

Monday, October 4, 2010

A Caramel Apple and Flexeril




Here I sit with a caramel apple and muscle relaxants in my stomach, a heating pad on my neck, my Hazel Rose Loom on my lap, a very demanding cat by my side and wet feet.

You know what is missing from my life? Routine. I have lost my routines and life seems to be just one unexpected thing after another. I have missed so many Tai Chi sessions it is embarrassing, I have missed almost as many walks, blogging has slipped from everyday to every other day (and today I noticed it has been 4 days since I posted anything). There are good reasons for that.

It has been a struggle for a few weeks to keep on top of stuff, but as we approached last weekend, I was looking forward to several days with "my mutts". Dogs are good for reducing stress, right? Little did I know. In the last two weeks, Milo had "become a man" ... testosterone was flowing freely through his system this weekend. As is typical with teenagers, he didn't know how to handle this new "big boy" feeling. He barked at everything, became hyper-vigilant protecting his mama from all the bad guys that prance through my living room, and humped every dog he could get to stand still. And he spent most of the weekend taunting Meathead - a senior citizen - to play with him. The barking, the nipping of the jowls and feet, and the sleep disruptions were more than poor Meaty could tolerate. I think the stress caused Meaty to have alot of seizure-like behavior the whole weekend. Much time was spent keeping the dogs apart and medicating Meathead. When the weekend was over, we were all sleep deprived and felt like disaster survivors. Next weekend should be better. Milo gets those offending little "nuts" cut off, and my son will be in town so his boys will spend most of the weekend in their quiet adult house. My son also needs to get Meaty's seizure meds adjusted so that he can tolerate "life" a bit better.

Today is a rainy Monday, and I had a list five things that I needed to do outside the house. I invited both my husband and my mom to go with me - both declined! (Yeah!!! Some time to myself.) But I woke with a stiff neck so before going out I used a heating pad and took 800 mg of Motrin - just to knock that pain out - so I could enjoy my morning. When I left my neck was still stiff. I tried to ignore it, even adding two more stops to my already busy morning (just for the fun of it I went to Borders and to Joanne Fabrics - and yes, I did get some fun stuff), but as the morning proceeded, my neck was getting worse and expanding into my shoulder. So at my last stop, I picked up some Caramel Apples (I am sure they are good for a stiff neck) and some Shrimp Chowder for lunch. Did you know that the Caramel Apple is the perfect food? Think about it. This fall favorite has an apple which is a fruit, the caramel is a starch, and the nut covering is protein. Perfect and well balanced. And the Shrimp Chowder was yummy too.

And the Flexeril? Well, I had a few pills from 2009 - technically they are over a year old, but they are still good I am sure (hoping). And if the one I took 45 minutes ago doesn't kick in soon, I will be taking another. I need to have full range of motion in my neck to finish my weaving before tomorrow. Priorities, priorities!

Pictured below is my 12" Hazel Rose Loom with a piece of weaving almost finished. On top of it is my 4" Weave-It loom - shown just to give scale. The Hazel Rose Loom is oak wood and stained exactly the same color as my living room furniture. My future orders with them will be of different woods.


Here's hoping that I get my old boring, but routine driven life back. And here's hoping that Flexeril starts to work soon.

Guess I should get my feet out of these wet shoes! Happy Monday all.