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Monday, January 21, 2019

Go Deeper Not Wider

So I have been tootling around the blog world looking for interesting blogs - blogs with ease of commenting.  In my search I discovered this one:


(Just a tiny point of clarification:  
no one should think I am interested in getting better at being human
 - and that is the first sign that 'bettering' is probably needed!!) 
Ha!!  

No, I was pulled into the blog by the current post called  Go Deeper Not Wider.

As I read this post I can honestly admit I felt a "wow factor."   It was like this guy was peeking in the window of my brain and finding something growing there that I was aware of but did not or could not express.  And he expressed it so well.

In his own words his thoughts on Go Deeper Not Wider:

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No new hobbies, equipment, games, or books are allowed during this year. Instead, you have to find the value in what you already own or what you’ve already started.
You improve skills rather than learning new ones. You consume media you’ve already stockpiled instead of acquiring more.
You read your unread books, or even reread your favorites. You pick up the guitar again and get better at it, instead of taking up the harmonica. You finish the Gordon Ramsey Masterclass you started in April, despite your fascination with the new Annie Leibovitz one, even though it’s on sale.
The guiding philosophy is “Go deeper, not wider.” Drill down for value and enrichment instead of fanning out. You turn to the wealth of options already in your house, literally and figuratively. We could call it a “Depth Year” or a “Year of Deepening” or something. 
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I encourage you to read the post completely.  I believe it reflects and compliments a lot of current thinking in areas of minimalism, anti-consumerism, finding joy in what you have, and other growing ground swells of thought.   

I am not sure I am up to any formal challenge or experimenting (his term) of 'deeper vs wider.'  But it does feel comfortable in my brain - and it is nice to have this image in my mind.

You see, I recognize the pattern of 'going wide' as a common pattern in my life.
  • I have a room full of yarn and about 5 three inch binders full of patterns - and I need to stop that expansion.  I won't live long enough to use all the yarn and patterns I have now.  That is not an idle statement.  I have counted the yardage and averaged the usage.  There is yarn in my yarn room that will outlive me!! I have three weaving looms.  I am not weaving.  I have two tapestry looms - I do have plans to do that.  I have fiber spindles and fiber - I don't spin.  I used to have a spinning wheel but in a moment of mental clarity I gave that to a cousin who was interested in spinning.
  • Adult coloring was all the rage a few years ago.  I got hooked.  I have several types of color pencils (not the cheap kind either) and probably 6 books - beautiful books.  I have colored about 2 1/2 pages ... only!!!  When I look at this hobby I think - yes I would like to return. I really enjoyed it.  But seriously, 6 books with only a few pages completed?!?!
  • I have a iPhone phone with lots of memory and 61 audio books are housed there.  61!!  If each audio book averages 10 hours a piece of listening time and I have 61 - that is over 610 hours of listening or about 25 days of listening round the clock!  Ridiculous!  
  • My Kindle library is about 6 screens long with titles just waiting to be read.  I kindle read only before bed and while I eat - at that rate I could read these titles probably for a year without adding to them.
  • My Craftsy account has 9 previously purchased classes.  I have viewed a few, but when Craftsy went to Bluprint they offered a one year membership - at a reduced rate - which would allow you to select 12 classes to keep permanently - AND a year to view any of their classes on line for free.  Wow - great offer - a large savings on their class costs - so I joined right up because this would be the year I would take some instruction.  I can't travel to it - so at home instruction is PERFECT!  But ... really, now instead of 9 classes that I haven't fully viewed, I will have 12 more.  I probably went 'deep' with some advanced instruction in current hobbies, but I think I went 'wide' by expanding of the class numbers I have yet to view.  *sigh* 
  • I have a pantry that is a hard-hat area!  And yet, my grocery shopping adds more to the stack of food stuffs then I use up.  What's with that??  I HATE cooking.  Sometimes I feel like I am unconsciously preparing for the apocalypse.
I could go on, but the bald-faced truth is this - I need to go 'deep'  ...  not 'wide.'   I think I have been moving in this direction unconsciously over the last year.  I avoid yarn stores, and yarn websites and I try to limit my purchases at yarn fairs.  I have de-stashed yarn and books and patterns, but to the casual eye - the dent is hard to see even with a microscope.  I did give away a full size spinning wheel  and a lap loom and that felt wonderful! We will not even address the pantry issues here (but I am ready for Zombies - in case you are wondering.).

Final thoughts on the Raptitude blog:
  • He has a deep inventory of posts on various subjects.  He currently does about 2 posts a month - and many of the titles are intriguing.  I have only read this one, but I know I will visit again to look at his other posts.  I did subscribe to his blog.
  • His blog is not a personal life sharing blog like mine or like so many I follow.  He does have a tab where he documents individual experiments (on himself) and logs the process.  And I noticed that while there is some commenting, he closes his commenting after a bit.  
  • Finally, the blogger doesn't claim to have any professional expertise - and that is fine by me.  Sometimes when a blogger has professional creds and lets you know what they are - I can't help wonder what they are trying to 'sell.'  This blog appears to be just his thoughts and ideas.  He appears to be just a writer-guy out of Canada that thinks a lot about these subjects and wants to share his thoughts.  Not much different from us other bloggers, I guess.  
In previous years I picked a word to point in the direction I wanted to go.  It is a popular habit among bloggers.  I didn't plan on picking a word this year, but after reading this post - 'Go Deep' fits me like hand to glove. 

  Check him out - or at least check out this post
 and let me know what you think.

Do you prefer going 'deep' or going 'wide?'

6 comments:

Michelle said...

I would say this has generally been my trend for quite a few years now. Since I know I don't have time for all I want to do right now, I know there's no point in adding new interests.

Marie Smith said...

Going deep sounds perfect. Good to try for a year and see where it takes me.

Lynne said...

I have am in a Go Deep mode and have been there for the past few years . . .
I find it takes discipline . . . with freedom as a result.
I started with shoes and clothing . . .
I work at it . . .
Going wide, is like a “hook” . . . pulling me in . . .
I stay aware . . . of “the hook” . . .

happyone said...

I have lots of things going on but I do all of them. It just takes me a while to get them done. :) I guess I do a bit of both.

Sandy said...

I don't understand why you're having trouble leaving comments now on my blog. I haven't changed settings except to get rid of the captcha, but aparently even though I've changed it so it's not there, some people are still getting it. I personally hate them and have never chosen to use them; but periodically it seems blogger defaults to their default and starts them on my blogs. You mentioned embedded comments, what setting are you using for yours? I like the most open one so you have name and url as an option instead of just google. When it's just google, I have to make a hyperlink with my comments, otherwise people click on my name and go to my profile instead of my blog...and since I have 3 blogs, they then have to decide which one to go to. I have many classes I've purchased through craftys also, and haven't watched any all the way through, but review bits and pieces from time to time. I can't see a reason to pay the yearly membership for the new method.

Retired Knitter said...

Hi Sandy,

I wish I had an easy answer for you regarding why Embedded Comments is a problem. All I can say is that when my blog had Embedded Comments - a number of readers could not leave a comment without great difficulty. I now use Pop Up Commenting and have not had readers barred that I know about.

In the last 2 months I started having difficulty myself leaving comments on others blogs that used Embedded Comments. I sent Blogger a message asking for assistance. They never responded (as many others have also reported.). So tried multiple work-arounds and checked all my settings to make sure I was not the problem. I did not find any work-arounds and my blog is set up as it has been since 2010 (with no problems till recently.) Then last month, Blogger would bounce me right out of the system if I persisted (over and over and over again to post a single comment). The problem grew until I was totally blocked from leaving comments on ANY Embedded Comment blog. That was when I had to decide - will I continue my own blog OR will I change my reading list to blogs with only Pop Up Commenting. I wanted to converse with people, not just write posts. I still want to blog so I let my readers know what the problem was and just moved on. Thankfully a number of them decided to use Pop Up Commenting on their own blogs.

This is really a BLOGGER PLATFORM PROBLEM because I am not the only one with this problem. So until Blogger fixes whatever their problems are (which they don't seem inclined to do) I will use Pop Up Comments and visit only blogs that use Pop Up Commenting - until that breaks. Hahaha. You just never know.